IS IT NOT AMAZING THAT BEING STRESSED OR ANXIOUS ABOUT ONE ISSUE ROBS YOU OF ENERGY, FOCUS, AND ATTENTION, BLUNTING YOUR ABILITY TO START, ACCOMPLISH, OR ENJOY MANY THINGS.
5 years ago
Charles Tadros, M.D.
May 23, 2021
Saint Louis, Missouri
I have never heard this type of a response, when the question was about the desire to win vs the need to avoid losing. Kobe describes curiosity… curiosity and learning. Date September 10, 2023 In relation to curiosity ADVERSE EFFECTS OF SUCCESS AND HAVING POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT INCLUDE THAT WE MAY BECOME PANICKED ABOUT MAKING MISTAKES, WORRIED ABOUT NOT BEING ABLE TO MAINTAIN THE PACE TO CONTINUE REACHING THESE ACHIEVEMENTS, AFRAID OF EMBARRASSING OURSELVES, ANXIOUS ABOUT LOSING ONE’S IDENTITY, BELIEF THAT WE ARE UNABLE TO CHANGE COURSE OR TO EXPLORE, AND FEARFUL OF LOSING THE ACCOLADES WHEN WE LOSE ALL THAT WE HAVE ACHIEVED. Date May 18, 2021 In relation to achievement MANY SELF-HELP AND HOW-TO VIDEOS ARE SO EDITED, AND LIMITED BY THE MEDIUM, THAT THEY LOSE THE BENEFITS OF ALLOWING US TO EXPERIENCE WHAT A PROJECT OR AN OUTCOME SHOULD SMELL LIKE, TASTE LIKE, SOUND LIKE, OR FEEL LIKE. Date July 15, 2021 In relation to BENEFITS PROJECT
