you can see everything that should have been done, everything that still needs to be done, and it’s your responsibility to notice, plan, arrange, assign, follow-up, apologize-for, and complete these, (as well as clean up after yourself and after everyone else). You can’t delegate anything, or even ask for help, because your brain is suchContinue reading “It’s so hard, “to be present” when…”
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READ MORE, ASK MORE, LEARN MORE…ABOUT EVERYTHING. NOT BECAUSE WE WILL BE TESTED ON ANY SUBJECT MATTER, OR THAT WE WILL BECOME EXPERTS, OR BECAUSE WE WILL NEED TO APPLY THE INFORMATION. IT’S IN ORDER FOR US TO PRACTICE ASKING MORE INTELLIGENT AND PENETRATING QUESTIONS, IN ORDER TO STIMULATE THOUGHT, STRENGTHEN RIGOROUS THINKING, AND IN ORDER TO DEVELOP RICHER IMAGINATIONS AND DEEPER INSIGHTS AND CONNECTIONS. MAYBE, JUST AS IMPORTANTLY, IT IS IN ORDER TO KEEP WONDER ALIVE AND FOR US NOT TO BE SO EASILY FOOLED, OR FOR US TO BECOME FOOLS.
Charles Tadros, M.D. June 18, 2022 Saint Louis, Missouri
COMING TO DEFINITIVE CONCLUSIONS AFTER “DOING RESEARCH” DOES NOT MAKE US AN EXPERT, AND IT DOES NOT MAKE US RIGHT. WHAT OUR INTELLECTUAL LABOR QUALIFIES US TO DO IS TO BETTER UNDERSTAND JARGON, TO ASK BETTER QUESTIONS, TO THINK MORE CRITICALLY, TO UNDERSTAND ANSWERS AND OPINIONS MORE EASILY, AND, MOST IMPORTANTLY, TO ASK EVEN BETTER FOLLOW-UP QUESTIONS.
Charles Tadros, M.D. August 6, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri
WHY IS IT SO HARD TO ASK FOR HELP? ASKING FOR HELP DOES NOT MEAN…
I can help. I am willing to help. I can or will help in the time-frame that you need. I can help in the way you want me to help. I can help in the way you are willing to accept my help. that my help will meet your standards. that my help will beContinue reading “WHY IS IT SO HARD TO ASK FOR HELP? ASKING FOR HELP DOES NOT MEAN…”