BEING FAST IS NOT THE SAME AS BEING EFFECTIVE OR BEING EFFICIENT. WE WANT TO BE EFFECTIVE IN ORDER TO ACCOMPLISH OUR GOAL(s). WE WANT TO BE FAST AND EFFICIENT IN ORDER TO PRESERVE OUR TIME AND OUR ENERGY.

Charles Tadros, M.D. May 17 , 2022 Saint Louis, Missouri

SOME PEOPLE ARE UNWILLING OR UNABLE TO DO MORE FOR THEMSELVES, LET ALONE HELP OTHERS BECAUSE:

1) Every project seems to have no bounds… bottomless and endless when it comes to how much time and energy it will require in order to successfully complete it. 2) As soon as one commits to spending time or expending energy, invariably, their other tasks, commitments, and schedules will expand and require immediate attention, leavingContinue reading “SOME PEOPLE ARE UNWILLING OR UNABLE TO DO MORE FOR THEMSELVES, LET ALONE HELP OTHERS BECAUSE:”

NEVER ASSUME THAT YOU AND YOUR SUPERVISORS/BOSSES HAVE THE SAME GOALS (or even similar goals), THE SAME ASSESSMENT OF RISK, THE SAME SENSE OF URGENCY, THE SAME ENERGY, THE SAME EXECUTION TIME TABLE, THE SAME UNDERSTANDING OF OTHER COMPETING TASKS / GOALS, THE SAME OBSESSIVENESS TO DETAIL, OR THE SAME SENSE OF SUPPORT FROM OTHERS.

Charles Tadros, M.D. September 9, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri

MANY OF OUR WORRIES ARE RELATED TO OUR ENERGIES. DO I HAVE ENOUGH ENERGY TO START? HOW MUCH ENERGY WILL IT TAKE? WHERE WILL I GET MORE ENERGY? WHERE WILL I GET ENERGY IF, SUDDENLY, I HAVE ADDITIONAL, UNEXPECTED, RESPONSIBILITIES? DO I HAVE ENOUGH ENERGY TO FINISH?

Charles Tadros, M.D. August 7, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri

IF YOU HAVE YOUR LIFE IN ORDER, THIS SIGNALS OTHER PEOPLE THAT THEY WOULD NOT BE INTRUDING EXCESSIVELY ON YOUR TIME OR ENERGY WHEN IT COMES TO THEIR ASKING FOR HELP.

Charles Tadros, M.D. July 8, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri

MAKING FUNDAMENTAL CHANGES IN PERCEPTIONS OR BELIEFS REQUIRES…

ENERGY to think TIME to think GRIEVING about giving up well-established, trusted dogmas and paradigms a way to RECONCILE the past, which had worked well enough for you, with the present and the future ( cognitive dissonance) making public and embarrassing MISTAKES while learning and changing Charles Tadros, M.D. June 14, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri

FOR SO MANY OF THE PEOPLE AROUND US EVERYDAY, IT TAKES ALL THEIR ENERGY TO REPEATEDLY BEAT DOWN THEIR ANXIOUS THOUGHTS AND TOO MUCH ENERGY TO REPEATEDLY ELEVATE THEMSELVES FROM THEIR DEPRESSIVE MOODS.

Charles Tadros, M.D. May 30, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri