Giving people space and support does not mean that they will abuse you or your kindness.

“You will never say or do anything to shock me or change my perception of you as a worthy person.”(All of us deserve to have heard this truth from our parents.) Charles Tadros, M.D. September 21, 2022 Saint Louis, Missouri

ONCE WE ARE CONVINCED THAT IMPORTANT CHANGES NEED TO BE MADE IN OUR LIVES (OR WE ACTUALLY MAKE THESE CHANGES), OUR WORK IS NOT DONE. SINCE NONE OF US LIVE IN A VACUUM, WHAT MAY BE LEFT TO DO IS TO CONVINCE OTHERS TO: ALLOW THESE CHANGES, ACCEPT THESE CHANGES, SUPPORT US IN THESE CHANGES, OR AT LEAST NOT BLOCK OR CHALLENGE THESE CHANGES. OFTEN, OTHERS ARE NOT ON BOARD WITH OUR CHANGES, SO WE HAVE TO DECIDE IF WE ARE GOING TO SPEND TIME AND ENERGY CONVINCING THESE PEOPLE, OR IGNORING THESE PEOPLE.

What we often forget is that our changes force others to think about, or even expend energy on: understanding what is happening, supporting us, or even possibly needing to make their own changes. Charles Tadros, M.D. April 10, 2022 Saint Louis, Missouri

IF WE HAVE REPEATEDLY GRINDING FULL DAYS’ WORTH OF WORK AND RESPONSIBILITIES, IT IS NOT ENOUGH TO GET DONE WITH WORK JUST IN TIME TO EAT AND GO TO BED. NO MATTER HOW MUCH LOVE, GRIT, RESILIENCE, AND SUPPORT WE HAVE, SOONER OR LATER, OUR MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH WILL SCREAM OUT WITH EXHAUSTION, PAIN, IRRITABILITY, DISEASE, AND BURNOUT.

Charles Tadros M.D. September 29, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri

NEVER ASSUME THAT YOU AND YOUR SUPERVISORS/BOSSES HAVE THE SAME GOALS (or even similar goals), THE SAME ASSESSMENT OF RISK, THE SAME SENSE OF URGENCY, THE SAME ENERGY, THE SAME EXECUTION TIME TABLE, THE SAME UNDERSTANDING OF OTHER COMPETING TASKS / GOALS, THE SAME OBSESSIVENESS TO DETAIL, OR THE SAME SENSE OF SUPPORT FROM OTHERS.

Charles Tadros, M.D. September 9, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri

WHEN IT COMES TO CHILDREN, STRESSING THEM AND SUPPORTING THEM, WHILE THEY ARE AROUND WATCHFUL, LOVING AND CARING ADULTS, IS THE KEY FOR OUR SOCIETY TO NOT LOWER STANDARDS, BUT, INSTEAD, HELP RAISE OUR CHILDRENS’ CONFIDENCES AND CAPABILITIES, WHILE LOWERING THEIR FEARS AND ANXIETIES.

Charles Tadros, M.D. July 29, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri

IT IS IMPORTANT TO RECOGNIZE THAT IF YOU TELL SOMEONE THAT YOU SUPPORT THEM, SOMETIMES THAT’S ALL YOU HAVE TO DO. KNOWING THAT THEY HAVE YOUR SUPPORT, GIVES OTHERS STRENGTH AND CONFIDENCE TO DO WHAT IS NECESSARY, OFTEN LEADING TO THEIR NOT NEEDING YOUR HELP AFTER ALL.

Charles Tadros, M.D. July 19, 2021 Saint Louis, Misy

WE SEEM TO BE ABLE TO DEAL WITH CRITICISM MUCH BETTER IF WE HAVE DEALT WITH A LOT OF IT, AND SURVIVED, OR IF WE HAVE NOT BEEN DENIED, DEPRIVED, SHAMED, EMBARRASSED OR OPPRESSED.

Charles Tadros, M.D. July 7, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri

EVERY MINUTE OF EVERY DAY, PEOPLE ARE SCRAMBLING TO FIGURE THINGS OUT FOR THEMSELVES. GIVE THEM ROOM TO STUMBLE, EVEN IF THEY END UP LANDING ON YOU. HELP CUSHION THEIR FALL. THE UNSTATED AGREEMENT IS THAT THEY WILL DO THE SAME FOR YOU OR THEY WILL PAY IT FORWARD TO OTHERS.

Charles Tadros, M.D. June 23, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri

RUNNING A HOUSEHOLD HAS MANY OF THE SAME NEEDS, GOALS, EMOTIONS, CONFLICTS, LOGISTICS, HURDLES AND OTHER FEATURES THAT ONE WOULD EXPERIENCE WHEN RUNNING A SMALL BUSINESS.

You will be refining SYSTEMS to achieve GOALS while continually DEVELOPING your TEAMS via EDUCATION and TRAINING, matching JOB SKILLS and PERSONALITY TRAITS, finding IN-HOUSE and EXTRAMURAL SUPPORT, and by removing HURDLES for your “FAMILY BUSINESS”.  All the while you will be BENCHMARKING QUALITY and PROGRESS while keeping this “EMPLOYEE-OWNED,” GOING CONCERN, ON-TIME and UNDERContinue reading “RUNNING A HOUSEHOLD HAS MANY OF THE SAME NEEDS, GOALS, EMOTIONS, CONFLICTS, LOGISTICS, HURDLES AND OTHER FEATURES THAT ONE WOULD EXPERIENCE WHEN RUNNING A SMALL BUSINESS.”

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