It’s OK to love someone who is hurtful and toxic, while keeping them at an arm’s length. This includes family and friends, as well as former business and romantic partners.

Being a good person does not include standing by, silently, while being endangered, shamed, embarrassed, controlled, or abused. Charles Tadros, M.D. September 3, 2022 Saint Louis, Missouri

WORKERS WANT THEIR BOSSES TO CATCH OTHER WORKERS NOT DOING THEIR JOBS. BOSSES CANNOT RELY ON WORKERS TURNING IN THEIR COLLEAGUES AND FRIENDS, EVEN THOUGH POOR PERFORMANCES FROM SOME WORKERS SHIFT MORE WORK, RESPONSIBILITIES, AND RISK ONTO THEIR FRIENDS AND COLLEAGUES.

Charles Tadros, M.D. August 12, 2022 Saint Louis, Missouri

WHEN MANY OF US USE ALCOHOL, OFTEN IT IS IN ASSOCIATION WITH POSITIVE EVENTS SUCH AS:

CONNECTING WITH SPOUSE/PARTNER, CONNECTING WITH FRIENDS, REWARDING OURSELVES AFTER MOWING THE LAWN/DOING YARD WORK, RITUALS OF BARBEQUING, COOKING DINNER, RELAXING ON WEEKENDS and DURING VACATIONS, SHARING TEAM SPIRIT AND ENJOYING SPORTS, RELAXING AND UNWINDING AFTER A HARD DAY’S WORTH OF WORK, AND PARTIES: BIRTHDAYS, ANNIVERSARIES, GRADUATIONS, WEDDINGS, SHOWERS, HOLIDAYS, COMING OF AGE CELEBRATIONS ALL OFContinue reading “WHEN MANY OF US USE ALCOHOL, OFTEN IT IS IN ASSOCIATION WITH POSITIVE EVENTS SUCH AS:”

BENEFITS OF COOKING OUR OWN FOOD…

We understand and appreciate: organization, planning, storage, space utilization, assistants, assistance, tools, work flow, completeness, exactness, freestyling, waste, cost, quality, time, timing, and coordination. We are more likely to appreciate the efforts and foods prepared by others. We may consider growing some of our own foods (even a simple windowsill herb garden). We appreciate theContinue reading “BENEFITS OF COOKING OUR OWN FOOD…”

HOW WE DRINK ALCOHOL (what, when, where, how much), THE REASON(s) FOR DRINKING, AND HOW ALCOHOL AFFECTS US ARE MORE TELLING THAN WE REALIZE.

Why “Mom Juice” Culture Is Problematic https://katiecouric.com/podcast/next-question/moms-and-drinking/ How Drinking Less Solved a Lot of Problems https://nyti.ms/2MHnOIp No adult wants to be questioned, judged, or regulated when it comes to anything in their lives, especially their alcohol consumption. Thirty years of my accumulated experience, knowledge, and wisdom from taking care of patients, including addressing their alcoholContinue reading “HOW WE DRINK ALCOHOL (what, when, where, how much), THE REASON(s) FOR DRINKING, AND HOW ALCOHOL AFFECTS US ARE MORE TELLING THAN WE REALIZE.”

ANOTHER SUICIDE…CHESLIE KRYST

https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/urn:li:activity:6894379272736178176?commentUrn=urn%3Ali%3Acomment%3A%28activity%3A6894379272736178176%2C6895116065764986880%29 There is no emoji adequate for the loss of another one of our sisters (or brothers). Cheslie is us and we are her. 130 suicides/day, completed, in the US. 3,700 suicide attempts, each and every day in the US (https://lnkd.in/gtm7iGnE). Medical and mental health professionals have an array of very effective treatments, not cures,Continue reading “ANOTHER SUICIDE…CHESLIE KRYST”

OCCASIONALLY, WHEN I AM LISTENING TO A YOUNG MAN OR WOMAN WHO IS LOST IN LIFE, WHO DOES NOT SEEM TO FIT IN WITH THEIR FAMILY, FRIENDS, JOB, CAREER, OR TOWN, I REMIND THEM THAT FOR A FEW HUNDRED DOLLARS AND LESS THAN 5 HOURS ON AN AIRPLANE, THEY CAN MOVE TO ANYWHERE IN THE UNITED STATES WHERE THEY MAY FIND A BETTER SOCIAL FIT, VARIED JOB AND CAREER OPPORTUNITIES, MORE LIFE SATISFACTION, AND, POSSIBLY, INTERNAL PEACE AND HAPPINESS.

Charles Tadros, M.D. February 2, 2022 Saint Louis, Missouri

IF GIVEN A CHANCE TO HAVE AN OPEN AND HONEST DISCUSSION, MANY OF US WOULD NOT SIT DOWN WITH A THERAPIST ALONG WITH THE FRIENDS, FAMILY OR LOVED ONES WHO HAVE HURT US.

Charles Tadros, M.D. July 7, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri

DO NOT LOOK AT THE FEATURES OF THE JOB. LOOK FOR THE PEOPLE WHO WILL BE WORKING ALONGSIDE YOU. THESE WILL BE THE PEOPLE WHO SHARE THE HIGHS AND LOWS OF THE DAY, WILL BECOME YOUR FRIENDS, AND, ONE MAY EVEN BECOME YOUR PARTNER OR SPOUSE.

(Thank you Dr. Val Willman, M.D.) Charles Tadros, M.D. May 6, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri

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