MANY TREATMENT RESISTANT, DEPRESSED PATIENTS HAVE INERTIA AND ANHEDONIA. INERTIA IS THE INABILITY TO GET STARTED. ANHEDONIA IS THE INABILITY TO DERIVE PLEASURE FROM ACTIVITIES. WHAT THE REST OF US SEE IN THESE PEOPLE ARE:

Procrastination Tardiness Exhaustion Altered sleep-wake patterns Quickly starting (forced), but quickly ending in incompleteness (inability to sustain effort) Finishing a project or reaching a goal, but deriving no satisfaction or pleasure in their accomplishments. This lack of a sense of reward reinforces not trying again in the future. Charles Tadros, M.D. June 16, 2022 SaintContinue reading “MANY TREATMENT RESISTANT, DEPRESSED PATIENTS HAVE INERTIA AND ANHEDONIA. INERTIA IS THE INABILITY TO GET STARTED. ANHEDONIA IS THE INABILITY TO DERIVE PLEASURE FROM ACTIVITIES. WHAT THE REST OF US SEE IN THESE PEOPLE ARE:”

SO MANY PEOPLE WITH PROCRASTINATION HAVE A SIGNIFICANT STREAK OF PERFECTIONISM (not for most of the things in their lives, but just for a few things). THE ABILITY TO RECOGNIZE THIS AND TO ASK FOR, AND TO ACCEPT HELP IS THE FIRST STEP TO IMPROVING THEIR SITUATIONS. THE NEXT STEP IS TO FORGIVE THEMSELVES FOR THEIR IMPERFECTIONS, WHILE STILL BEING ABLE TO START AND WORK ON A PROJECTS WITHOUT ALL THE TOOLS, KNOWLEDGE, GAME PLANS, OR HELP, BEING IN PLACE, FROM THE START.

This is how we learn, and iterate (repeat efforts after small changes are made due to lessons learned). Making educated mistakes, learning, and repeating one’s efforts, in better directions with better information, is key to getting started, and eventually, reaching one’s goals. Charles Tadros, M.D. June 14, 2022 Saint Louis, Missouri

FEAR, INDECISION, INDECISIVENESS, ANXIETY, INEXPERIENCE, AND LACK OF BEING ABLE TO PROJECT POSITIVE OUTCOMES, ALL CONTRIBUTE TO PROCRASTINATION AS WELL AS TO SLOWED AND CONFUSED MENTAL AND PHYSICAL PROGRESS TOWARDS A GOAL.

Charles Tadros, M.D. February 2, 2022 Saint Louis, Missouri

FOR PROCRASTINATORS…WALK INTO WORK AND START WORKING EVEN BEFORE YOU PUT DOWN YOUR BELONGINGS, TAKE OFF YOUR COAT, OR GET A COFFEE. STAND WHILE YOU PERFORM THE BORING OR UNPLEASANT TASKS. START THE DAY RUNNING IN ORDER TO SET YOUR INTERNAL TEMPO.

DO NOT let tasks dictate how long they are going to take of your time. In a procrastinator’s mind, tasks will take forever, therefore we don’t want to start them. YOU decide how much time you will put into a task, even if it is not enough time to finish that task…AND STICK TO THEContinue reading “FOR PROCRASTINATORS…WALK INTO WORK AND START WORKING EVEN BEFORE YOU PUT DOWN YOUR BELONGINGS, TAKE OFF YOUR COAT, OR GET A COFFEE. STAND WHILE YOU PERFORM THE BORING OR UNPLEASANT TASKS. START THE DAY RUNNING IN ORDER TO SET YOUR INTERNAL TEMPO.”

YOUR BRAIN WILL FORCE YOU TO TAKE A BREAK WHETHER YOU WANT TO, READY TO, OR NOT: TIREDNESS, SLEEPINESS, LACK OF ABILITY TO FOCUS, PROCRASTINATION.

Charles Tadros, M.D. June 10, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri

IN DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY, SLEEP DOES NOT RESTORE ENERGY, PROCRASTINATION INVADES MORE AND MORE OF ONE’S LIFE, VACATION DOES NOT FEEL RELAXING, WEEKENDS BECOME WASTED, EXERCISE IS EXHAUSTING, AND MEDITATION IS FRUSTRATING.

Charles Tadros, M.D. June 5, 2021 Saint Louis, Missouri